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Proverbs 17:17 tells us that a true friend is one who loves at all times . . ... when we fail as well as when we are successful. If we have such a friend, we must honor that person and be thankful for him even when he corrects or admonishes us for our own benefit. Proverbs 27:6 says, “Faithful are the wounds of a Friend but the kisses of an enemy are deceitful”  

ABRAHAM is the only person in the scriptures who is called ‘the friend of God’. (2 Chronicles 20:7; Isaiah 41:8; Jeremiah 2:23) 

In Psalm 18:24, David said, in reference to the Lord being our friend, “There is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.” 

David had several friends who faithfully served him through many battles and then turned away from him when he was old.

JOAB
was David’s friend and also chief captain in the army (2 Samuel 5:6-10). As one of the three sons of David’s sister Zeruiah, Joab was also David’s nephew. He faithfully carried out David’s order to place a man by the name of Uriah on the front line of battle where he was sure to be killed, in order to cover David’s sin of adultery with Uriah’s wife, Bathsheba. (2 Samuel 11:1-25)

Shortly before David’s death, Joab joined David’s eldest son, Adonijah, who attempted to set himself up as king. (1 Kings 1:1-9) When David learned about the deception, he had his son Solomon crowned king, and advised him to execute Joab after he would be fully established as ruler of Israel. (1 Kings 2:1-6)

AHITHOPHEL,a faithful counselor of David, also defected when another son of David, Absalom, attempted to set himself up as king. (2 Samuel 16:23)

He may have thought he would have more power under Absalom’s rule than he had with David, and also he resented what David did to his granddaughter, Bathsheba. (compare 2 Samuel 11:3 with 2 Samuel 23:34) When he saw that Absalom’s cause had failed, Ahithophel went home and hanged himself.

JONATHAN was David’s best friend from the time of David’s victory over Goliath throughout the remainder of the forty years his father Saul was king of Israel.

However, at the end of Saul’s reign, Jonathan left David and joined his father in a battle with the Philistines. He died in that battle along with his father and two brothers. (1 Samuel 31:2)

The prophet Micah said, "Do not trust in a friend or put confidence in a guide.” (Micah 7:5) In Proverbs 3:26, Solomon tells us we should place our confidence in the Lord. David said, “it is better to trust in the Lord than to put confidence in man.” (Psalm 118:8,9)

LUKE was a very good friend, companion, and fellow worker of the apostle Paul. (Philemon 24 and Colossians 4:14) There is very little information in the Bible about Luke other than that he was a physician and that he was the author of the gospel of Luke and also of the book of Acts.

We first see Luke in Acts 16:10,11 when he joined Paul and others in Troas and sailed with them to Macedonia. He traveled with Paul as far as Phillipi. (Acts 16:25-17:1), but did not share in Paul’s persecution nor leave the city.

Luke accompanied Paul on his journey to Jerusalem (Acts 20:6-21:18), and was with him during the shipwreck that occurred when Paul was being taken to Rome.

The last time we see Luke, he is visiting Paul in a Roman prison, shortly before Paul’s execution (2 Timothy 4:11), and we find him to be a faithful friend to Paul even when everyone else had deserted him.

Zechariah 13:6 prophesied that JESUS would be wounded in the house of his friends. Just before Jesus was arrested, He and His eleven disciples had gone into the Garden of Gethsemene. Jesus instructed them to wait while He went aside to pray. Twice He returned and found them asleep. (Mart. 26:36-43) He went away the third time, and when He returned and again found them sleeping, He said, “Let us be going now. The one who has betrayed me is close by.”

While He was still speaking, Judas came with a great many soldiers who had been sent with Him from the chief priests and elders. Judas approached Jesus and said, “hail, master” and then kissed Him.

Jesus asked, “Friend.... why have you come here? Do you betray the Son of Man with a kiss?"

Then the soldiers bound Jesus and took Him to the High Priest. (Matthew 26:44-57; Mark 14:43-45; Luke 22:47-48; and John 18:1-5)

In Psalm 41:9, David prophesied about Judas’ betrayal of the Lord when he wrote, “My own trusted friend has lifted up his heel against Me"

Some of Jesus last words to His disciples were: 

"This is My commandment, that you love one another as I have loved you.  Greater love has no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.  You are my friends if you do whatever I command you." (John 15:12-14)
 

 
     

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